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Middle age, many people will think about this life career has been a success. Of course many of us there is no Cheap Ken Griffey Shoes lack of successful talent, but in reality it did not succeed. Luck may be an important reason. But more common is people's daily words and deeds into the trap of failure, which leads inevitably to bring their own bad luck. Thus, such a trap called a loser deadly "vices".
Vices one: the illusion of self-deception.
Losers in life, likes to deceive ourselves. If only someone dishonest, at least money is expected to achieve their goals. But if this man with his own not to mention honesty, that his progress in the way of life is also do not expect. Many cases not be honest about their current situation in life exactly what kind of situation, the prospects of achieving the desired objectives, they have which insufficient.
Vices two: the lack of creativity.
I have again and again to tell people who do not have basic life skills to rely on what will make people willing to pay you, that is, people have received some labor. Another obvious reason that they do not understand that it is only the more valuable the things he has done, you have earned more. We can see that in the medical, legal, music, or economic accounting class, they can make people good health, happiness, having a good time or harvest something. If economic success is the goal you seek, you must be in real life, rather than manufactured in a dream or create a point others need.
Vices: neglect friends.
Generally, the losers have a habit is like curry favor and curry favor with those of their own and not of much help, but why turn away quite a friendly relationship with their people, and I was very surprised to find that this "law". The fact is that, in order to help and support of friends handedly conquer the world, you do not expect all wishes come true. Each loser's example that I have ever seen, can not make friends and maintain friendship between friends is always one of the causes.
Vices: the words and deeds disrespectful.
The rudeness of the losers interpersonal skills are also common. They can not keep the appointment on time, not very graciously thanked gift the gift of others, will not apologize for their arrogance and error.
I like through statistical guests late the length of time to estimate a person's success or failure, occupations, busy, and the great responsibility of the guests can always be punctual for appointments, while the idler doing nothing all day but it will be late, or even simply not show up.
Habit: dress improperly.
I also realized that a beautiful young lady, she has been desperate for four jobs. I introduced her to participate in an interview. The company has its good image of the family proud. Incredibly, the lady is wearing shorts and T-shirts, high-heeled sandals in the general manager of the restaurant. From her the moment she had been destroyed in the interview.
Wearing of the losers is not so decent. They do not wear a tie or wear sports shoes, went to the interview wearing jeans and went to the party, the party, others are dressed a formal dress.
Vices VI: complaining.
Losers often disappointed pessimistic about their future, they do not like their work and the environment, always thought that the people around you are hypocritical and stupid, they feel unhappy about anything, again frustrated and bored Ken Griffey Shoes 2011 hopelessness infect the people around. They inadvertently showed that the loss of confidence on the life of eleven deep-rooted that they can not have done more and better, a few flat willing to listen to him talk, such a statement, they did not realize that this is equal to others for advertising, I failed.
Habit 7: a pointless argument.
The loser always like the debate to find a cause. Maybe he will think, friends and colleagues for this will be his able and intelligent, deeply impressed, will he left a deep impression. This is really wrong. Affairs ridden people do not like to waste time for those arguing with.
Vices: Things to put the cart before the horse.
The losers can not straighten the priorities of the matter. The school had met such a man, clever and handsome, his father was a rich man, a very successful career, he has been in an apartment building when a small chieftain nail for many years there has been no move to apartment. But when I persuaded him to test civilian civil servants, he always insisted that did not empty, too busy, hobby will already be a lot of time. These words from 1996 began to tell me, until now! The fact is, there is no what has been done should be plenty of time, even the really important things, but the losers in the cause of life but never understand, things to Nike Air Max 2012 Leather prioritize is an irrefutable truth. They seem never to know, to give up a relatively unimportant matter and energy for the events is not a loss, on the contrary, this is the pen a good deal of trading.
Vices one: the illusion of self-deception.
Losers in life, likes to deceive ourselves. If only someone dishonest, at least money is expected to achieve their goals. But if this man with his own not to mention honesty, that his progress in the way of life is also do not expect. Many cases not be honest about their current situation in life exactly what kind of situation, the prospects of achieving the desired objectives, they have which insufficient.
Vices two: the lack of creativity.
I have again and again to tell people who do not have basic life skills to rely on what will make people willing to pay you, that is, people have received some labor. Another obvious reason that they do not understand that it is only the more valuable the things he has done, you have earned more. We can see that in the medical, legal, music, or economic accounting class, they can make people good health, happiness, having a good time or harvest something. If economic success is the goal you seek, you must be in real life, rather than manufactured in a dream or create a point others need.
Vices: neglect friends.
Generally, the losers have a habit is like curry favor and curry favor with those of their own and not of much help, but why turn away quite a friendly relationship with their people, and I was very surprised to find that this "law". The fact is that, in order to help and support of friends handedly conquer the world, you do not expect all wishes come true. Each loser's example that I have ever seen, can not make friends and maintain friendship between friends is always one of the causes.
Vices: the words and deeds disrespectful.
The rudeness of the losers interpersonal skills are also common. They can not keep the appointment on time, not very graciously thanked gift the gift of others, will not apologize for their arrogance and error.
I like through statistical guests late the length of time to estimate a person's success or failure, occupations, busy, and the great responsibility of the guests can always be punctual for appointments, while the idler doing nothing all day but it will be late, or even simply not show up.
Habit: dress improperly.
I also realized that a beautiful young lady, she has been desperate for four jobs. I introduced her to participate in an interview. The company has its good image of the family proud. Incredibly, the lady is wearing shorts and T-shirts, high-heeled sandals in the general manager of the restaurant. From her the moment she had been destroyed in the interview.
Wearing of the losers is not so decent. They do not wear a tie or wear sports shoes, went to the interview wearing jeans and went to the party, the party, others are dressed a formal dress.
Vices VI: complaining.
Losers often disappointed pessimistic about their future, they do not like their work and the environment, always thought that the people around you are hypocritical and stupid, they feel unhappy about anything, again frustrated and bored Ken Griffey Shoes 2011 hopelessness infect the people around. They inadvertently showed that the loss of confidence on the life of eleven deep-rooted that they can not have done more and better, a few flat willing to listen to him talk, such a statement, they did not realize that this is equal to others for advertising, I failed.
Habit 7: a pointless argument.
The loser always like the debate to find a cause. Maybe he will think, friends and colleagues for this will be his able and intelligent, deeply impressed, will he left a deep impression. This is really wrong. Affairs ridden people do not like to waste time for those arguing with.
Vices: Things to put the cart before the horse.
The losers can not straighten the priorities of the matter. The school had met such a man, clever and handsome, his father was a rich man, a very successful career, he has been in an apartment building when a small chieftain nail for many years there has been no move to apartment. But when I persuaded him to test civilian civil servants, he always insisted that did not empty, too busy, hobby will already be a lot of time. These words from 1996 began to tell me, until now! The fact is, there is no what has been done should be plenty of time, even the really important things, but the losers in the cause of life but never understand, things to Nike Air Max 2012 Leather prioritize is an irrefutable truth. They seem never to know, to give up a relatively unimportant matter and energy for the events is not a loss, on the contrary, this is the pen a good deal of trading.
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